Saturday, August 10, 2013

changing address

Yes, gurls, I am changing the address for my blog.  I've always had many interests and so decided to incorporate most of them on one BIG blog.  You sort of knew I was a size queen, I'm sure, so bigger is better when it comes to housing my imagination.

You can follow me there if you so wish.  Otherwise, it's been nice knowing ME!

My new address:  MY NEW BLOG ADDRESS

Sunday, July 21, 2013

A Question on Porn

Occasionally, I will be directed to a blog or website to comment and give my interpretation of a photo or video.  For the most part, it's porn (of course): Girl on Girl, Guy on Guy, BBC., Cuckolds Galore, Sissies gone Wild, Strapped on Dominatrices,  Sluts, Hot Wives, and on and on.  And then I come back to mine and well, mine is Uber-tame in visual hardware. 

But this got me thinking... is there a such a thing as over-kill regarding pornography?  What about when you had to really search to find something naughty, graphic, explicit, SURPRISING, in photos and videos.  Was the hidden chase for it more exciting then?
Now,  just type in a word like 'cock', hit 'image' on Google, and you'll just about see it all - explicit, hardcore sex, and it's FREE!  Tons of it.  Gallons of it.  For the average porn surfer, does every photo, every act, every angle, every thrust, every suck, every hole, eventually become so predictable as to become... boring?

Feedback on this would be interesting.

When I first started out on Niteflirt, the only photo I had up was of London's Big Ben, and I rose very quickly to the top of list.  I was rather proud of that, only because, it was my brain and not my boobs that took me there.  I've always been more interested in the mind-fuck, the mind-games, and the visceral rather than the visual experience.

So, basically, to get to the point, has the surfeit of  free porn killed the thrill....

                                                                  or not?

Saturday, June 29, 2013

Panties and sissy joy...

If there is one thing a sissy enjoys, it is showing off for 'her' Mistress.  As always, any attention is better than none.  So, here is the photo of sissy joy's pretty panties and strappy heels.

I think a compliment needs to be given when possible, so let's look at the legs - not too shabby.  Nice height, and slim, almost girl-like body.  If you dressed her up properly, wig, make-up, etc., she could reasonably pass as a female.

Sissy joy loves it when I make her do embarrassing things.  For instance, she loves humping the pillow, sucking on a big dildo, repeating girlie things, and... well, you get the picture.  A lot of fun, easy to ridicule, and very compliant while her little clitty is stiff.

So, another one for the Hall of Shame?  I don't think so.  Just a guy who loves being a submissive girl.

And, check out those shoes!

Saw this on Tumbler.  Hope the person does not mind me putting it here, but really... my conversations with my sissies would be impossible for others  to understand - we barely understand ourselves!

Saturday, June 1, 2013

HALL OF SHAME This one is for Joe Williams

I do believe I have mentioned this slut before.  In brief, he wanted to be exposed for the slut he is - a total cocksucker, if ever there is one.  There, I put that up front, so that the more sensitive (gurl-on-girl) sissies can just STOP HERE.

Still reading?  LOL.

Anyway, he called me the other day and more or less begged for me to give mention of him on my blog.  I try to do my best with polite requests, so here goes.

Apparently, (allegedly) Joe Williams' brother-in-law, Jerry, witnessed Joe coming out of a 'bath house' and rather naturally assumed he was there for some hanky-pansy, homo sex.  On confronting Chris with this knowledge, his brother-in-law ridiculed him to no end, and then promptly informed his wife, Pattie, of her brother's homo-tendencies.  Long shot of it all, his sister set him up with a guy from where she works.  She thought it funny (sad-funny) but being sisterly, wanted him to find a nice man to date and have sex with, perhaps to keep him out of the bath houses.  Makes sense.

The nice man, who works with  his sister,  agreed to meet up with Joe.  He turned out not  so much gay as dominant. Or was he?  I tend to think it is rather the stronger rise to the top when in the company of someone they see as their inferior.  Joe definitely fits this bill. Totally lacking in sexual prowess, has low self-esteem, and believes himself to be inferior to most men and women.

So, the nice man ended up taking Joe back to his place.  Once there, with as little communication as possible, he ordered  Joe suck his dick, and then finished off by doing him in the arse.  You know, a typical transitory evening between two males looking for dirty sex.  Oh, I almost forgot, Joe enjoyed a nice facial too.  And that was that.  No exchange of numbers. Out the door.  What this nice man's deal is, I don't know, but obviously that evening he didn't care where he put his cock.

I asked Joe  if he actually enjoyed it.  He stated that when he was being fucked, the one thought he had was 'hurry up and get it over with'.  In other words, he didn't enjoy it and yet he didn't leave.  He asked me if I thought he could ever stop doing these things.  I'm sorry, but my answer was NO.  This is not a passing experiment he can put aside.  The bath houses, the glory-holes, etc.,  are the places he has to go to in order to feel sexually charged.  A 'normal' healthy sex life is just not in the cards for him.

Joe has called me over quite a long period, and he has probably called other Mistresses in the past.  He's addicted, alright.  What his sister didn't understand is that he is not gay.  Life would be so much easier for him if he was.  I mean, how do you explain to someone who loves you, that the only sex you want is the degrading kind?  For Joe Williams, the best way to do this is with his mouth on a cock.

Some of you can relate to this.
Ms. London.

So, Joe... this one is for you.  You are now in the Hall of Shame.  Congrats!  And, I have decided to make a Hall of Shame for all those deserving of entry. 

Sunday, May 19, 2013

Youtube Girls in the office...

I have watched quite a few of this guy's videos this morning.    Really funny and talented.  He is, indeed, a one man show and the characters he has created are ingenious.  Plus, he knows how to put on make-up!

Saturday, May 18, 2013


closet              As you gurls witness every day, there are so many parts that make up YOU. Most of you put on your trousers and shirt and present yourself to the world as a 'regular guy' - a real chip off the old block. But then, home alone, or sneaking away, that other part of you, closeted, hidden, demands to be let out. This has probably gone on for years, perhaps starting at a young age, the desire to put on certain female clothing or touching certain fabrics, and... yeah, that catch of your breath, a quickening of your pulse, and then finding yourself aroused, you touched... Sort of went hand in hand, didn't it?

And so, more often than not, an addiction settles in and a fetish is born. Why it effects one person more than another, is still a mystery. But as the fetish grows, it metastasizes over the years. Face it. There is no cure, there is no end. This applies to any fetish, but this is the Sissy Blog and so I am restricting this post to just this sissification/feminization/cross-dressing fetish. I know how complicated this area is, and so I am stating here I am concentrating my opinion on this fetish. You chromosome gurls can wait - patience is your virtue.

SO, I personally do not believe a fetish can be eradicated. Which of you are familiar with taking these steps:
Not looking at porn
Deleting your hidden porn files on your computer
Deleting websites you frequent
Throwing out any articles of feminine clothing or gurl toys
Taking up a new hobby - exercising, etc.
Seeking therapy or counseling of some sort
Buying books on Self-Help and Building Confidence
Refraining from masturbation
Settling for what you have

And, this works for a while doesn't it? You begin to feel better about yourself, your confidence improves, and just when you think you've conquered and won, the battle begins all over again, only this time all your will to fight has been sapped, and you find yourself almost willfully surrendering. The answer of course is to stop battling. Just accept this side of yourself because it ain't going anywhere for long. It is an inherent part of you, like it or not--guilt or not!

If you accept the choice isn't strictly yours to make, and that this sexual turn-on will always be a part of you, you'll feel less guilty, and less frustrated. And, you will probably not be so weak to the fetish that gnaws away at your resolve.

"I am what I am
And what I am needs no excuses
I deal my own deck
Sometimes the aces sometimes the deuces
It's one life and there's no return and no deposit
One life so it's time to open up your closet
Life's not worth a dam till you can shout out I am what I am "
(La Cage aux Folles)

Okay, maybe you have to shout silently, but you get the 'note' I'm making here. Accept yourself for who you are. Maybe you have to hide, maybe you have to stay closeted, but don't hate yourself for this. And don't beat yourself up.

Just some thoughts I had while coming on here to post. And, actually, the reason I came on here is to say that in the near future my posts will be on my new website, which is a work in progress. In the meantime, I am doubling up.

Random thoughts, in an Understanding Mood.
Ms. London.

Monday, May 6, 2013

The Age old Question:

Does size matter?
Yes, it most certainly does.  But, let's play a game.  I'm going to show you some photos and you guess what a woman wants.  Showing by example is always such a good idea.











What does your gut instinct tell you?
That the second photo in every category is what any sensible woman would want?
Yes... So, do we really have to keep asking the age old question when the answer is so very obvious.  BIGGER IS BETTER when it comes to what a woman wants her man to give her!

Ms. London.